The following thoughts are not originally mine but came to me via two of our parishioners who have just returned from a time away. Most of the following is lifted directly from the pew bulletin of Zion Lutheran Church at Gawler.
They seemed pertinent to us for two reasons… the first being that we are currently exploring some of Paul’s encouragement and advice written to Timothy, who was much influenced by his Grandmother.
Second, the majority of our parishioners are grandparents … for whom a word of encouragement can never go astray. Especially as, being a grandparent often coincides with “slowing down” and, perhaps for some, feeling less useful than in our earlier years.
Timothy’s grandmother Lois was a person of living faith who had passed on her beliefs to her daughter and grandson (2 Timothy1: 5) Grandparents can play a very special part in communicating faith and values to their grandchildren. In their calling as “elders in faith’ they have wonderful gifts to offer.
- Self Worth – Children feel great when their grandparents give them positive recognition and unconditional love.
- Heritage – Whether they are close by or far away, grandparents give their children a sense of their identity and belonging.
- Acceptance – children need to know that the adults who are important to them accept their enthusiasms, ideas and activities. Such acceptance by grandparents is hugely affirming for children.
- Love – The gift of “I will be there for you at all times, no matter what” – whether spoken aloud, written in a letter, or shown by actions – will always be the most treasured and remembered gift of all.
It must have heartened Lois to know that Timothy grew to be a man of faith who served our Lord. We don’t always know the fruit of our prayers, faith or actions.
So… grandparents, remember that you have much still to give in the nurture of faith. And parents… perhaps a word of thanks to your children’s grandparents would help them to know their own worth. They have a special, God given calling!
Many, many blessings
Rev Shan