I know that some of you have struggled with colds and flu this week. Others have suffered sadness and grief, and some have struggled with chronic illness. There have been funerals and worries aplenty too. My own week has not been easy either, and full of worrying news with regard to friends and relatives whom I love. On Monday I attended the very sad funeral of a young man (the son of some friends) I first met about 20 years ago, when he was just 8. I remember him running, at a hundred miles an hour, with our children when we were living at St Johns College at Morpeth, as I trained for ordination. For some reason, unknown to anyone other than himself, Michael took his own life. Naturally, those who love him are confused and grief stricken! He seemed to have everything to live for… what a dreadful tragedy!
I can only imagine the burden of pain his parents and siblings are carrying at present. They tell me that their faith in a loving God and the support of friends is all that keeps them going. Michaels Dad said that he couldn’t understand how anyone could survive such deep sorrow without a deep faith and trust in God.
Jesus says (Matthew 11)- 28 ‘Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. 29Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.’
I am reminded of an old story about a little boy who was out helping dad with the yard work. Dad asked him to pick up the rocks in a certain area of the yard. Dad looked over and saw him struggling to pull up a huge rock buried in the dirt. The little boy struggled and struggled while Dad watched. Finally, the boy gave up and said, “I can’t do it.” Dad asked, “Did you use all of your strength?” The little boy looked hurt and said, “Yes, sir. I used every ounce of strength I have.” The father smiled and said, “No you didn’t. You didn’t ask me to help.” The father walked over and then the two of them pulled that big rock out of the dirt.
Makes you think, doesn’t it?
Love and Blessings
Rev Shan