True Freedom in Forgiveness

Few people are so blessed as to never have been hurt by another human being… by unkind words or cruel actions, be they intended or not. The load of hurt can be a crippling burden. I share with you, this week, the wisdom of one who has known far deeper hurt than I.

***When Bill Clinton met Nelson Mandela for the first time, he had a question on his mind: “When you were released from prison, Mr. Mandela,” the former President said, “I woke my daughter at three o’clock in the morning. I wanted her to see this historic event.” Then President Clinton zeroed in on his question: “As you marched from the cellblock across the yard to the gate of the prison, the camera focused in on your face. I have never seen such anger, and even hatred, in any man as was expressed on your face at that time. That’s not the Nelson Mandela I know today,” said Clinton. “What was that about?”

Mandela answered, “I’m surprised that you saw that, and I regret that the cameras caught my anger. As I walked across the courtyard that day I thought to myself, ‘They’ve taken everything from you that matters. Your cause is dead. Your family is gone. Your friends have been killed. Now they’re releasing you, but there’s nothing left for you out there.’ And I hated them for what they had taken from me. Then, I sensed an inner voice saying to me, ‘Nelson! For twenty-seven years you were their prisoner, but you were always a free man! Don’t allow them to make you into a free man, only to turn you into their prisoner!'”

You can never be free to be a whole person if you are unable to forgive.

***(As quoted by King Duncan, Collected Sermons, www.Sermons.com)

Forgiveness: Never does the human soul appear so strong and noble as when it forgoes revenge and dares to forgive an injury.

E. H. Chapin

Love and Blessings

Rev Shan